Everyone has habits, and understanding them is key to changing bad habits to good ones (see this previous blogpost to understand how habits are formed and the ONLY way to change them: http://workoutanytime.blogspot.com/2018/01/how-to-overcome-negative-habit.html)
All good habits are not equal – certain habits have a much bigger positive effects than others. These “super” habits are called Keystone Habits, and if you are looking to adopt a single habit that will have the biggest positive impact on your life consider one of the keystone habits described below.
Although on the surface keystone habits share a lot with any other habits the difference is that keystone habits tend to have a domino effect and act as a positive catalyst for change in other areas of your life. Keystone habits help create and maintain other good habits.
So what makes a habit a keystone habit? Charles Duhigg, author of the definitive book on habits – The Power of Habit, says that keystone habits actually change how we see ourselves – “When researchers look at how people change their habitual behaviors, they find when some changes occur, it seems to set off a chain reaction that causes other patterns to change as well. The power of a keystone habit draws from its ability to change your self-image.”
Exercise – The KING of Keystone Habits!
For many people exercise is THE keystone habit because when they develop the habit of exercising consistently they tend to naturally make better easting choices, stop procrastinating, etc. This happens because exercising regularly helps you create a positive self-image – which is that of someone who is healthy!
By adopting habits, like exercise, that create a positive self-image, we begin to subconsciously encourage ourselves to reinforce that new self-image by adopting other positive behaviors. This is VERY powerful!
Other Keystone Habits
Meditation – there are many forms of meditation but people who make meditation a habit often find that it is catalyst for overall positive change in their life. Research supports this belief – there is a huge body of scientific research showing all sorts of physical and mental benefits from the simple practice of meditation!
Reading – if you adopt a regular habit of reading you constantly learn and grow and help maintain mental flexibility while aging along with having the ability to travel to distant worlds, escape to a better place, and in general have access to endless entertainment and fun! Many people describe the action of developing a reading habit as being the single most important factor in their later success and happiness!
Writing – as a means of self- expression and creativity - writing is amazing. A regular writing practice helps order your thoughts and mind and share ideas with others! Like the other keystone habits this practice often faciitates positive and lasting change!
Socializing – Humans are social animals and we need and crave social contact. This is particularly true as we age. Developing a social group/habit is absolutely key to happiness for most people. And who you socialize with has huge impact on your opinions and habits – be they good or bad.
There are many other habits that can become keystone habits for you. To identify keystone habits, look for habits that have that domino effect in your life, and help change your self-image for the better by participating in the habit. Pay attention to how you feel as you perform regular actions and activities in your life and when you notice you feel better about yourself when you do something it is quite likely that this is keystone habit for you!
